Shay is an ER nurse by day, compulsive volunteer within the San Francisco sex-positive community by night (though let’s be honest, it’s hardly limited to nights!). She lives in a large household that includes the other members of her polyamorous quad and her two kids. She identifies as a pansexual polyamorist playslut (and probably a few other P’s she hasn’t thought of yet). Often with her partner Stefanos, she hosts events and teaches classes several times a month in SF Bay Area and beyond.