Mistress Mayhem is a photographer, educator, hedonist and lifestyle Mistress. She grew up in the NorthEast, followed the rules, and did what was expected. She traded the white picket fence and her safe, corporate design career in Boston at the age of 32 for the life she lives now. As an active participant in the Madison scene now, with over 20 years of experience in BDSM and attending events all over the country, as someone who delves deep into the mind of her play partners she has something unique to contribute as an educator with her talent of “Mind Fuckery”.