BDSM is my lifelong passion. I am a versatile Dominant Woman, a caring skilled sadomasochist and a ritualist. I know that consensual erotic power play is often be a valid path to self-discovery, intimacy and healing. Starting in the 1980s, I participated in many Leather Conferences and BDSM educational groups and developed a voice as an ethical kink presenter. In 1995 I founded the Academy of S/M Arts. In 2002 I offered the first ‘Erotic Dominance Intensive for Women’. I now hold weekend Intensives several times each year at the San Francisco Citadel, along with co-instructors Eve Minax and Selina Raven, for ‘Dominant Women/Men and Those Who Switch’.

My award-winning docufilm ‘The Pain Game,’ is noted for its authenticity in embodying the spirit of connected SM play and has become a classic. I also produced the video docu-drama ‘Tie me Up’ and am published in many non-fiction lifestyle books starting with the ground breaking anthology ‘Different Loving’. I also appear in numerous online zines and kinky blogs. In 2008 I had the honor to be a Leather Marshall for the LGBT San Francisco Parade and become part of the Living Leather heritage of the SWLC. Want more? Visit www.sm-arts.com for videos clips, podcast, articles and details on Weekend Intensives, private consultations and couple guided play. I do believe in the magic of connected loving hot BDSM and keep a sense of humor about it all!” ” – In office or by phone: Personal consultations for new comers to the scene,Tops, bottom, switches of al genders, ages and orientations from curious to seasoned players with questions.

• – In person, in my dungeon: Your initiation as a sub, or bottom, alone or with your partner as me as your guide
• – In person and in my dungeon: Coaching couples, 3 hour guided play sessions focusing on both partners enjoyment of their play
• – Erotic Dominance Intensive weekends for Dominant Men, Women and Switches. Immersion small group hands-on Attend alone or with your partner.

I am direct, very skilled and look for that hot park in all consensual play SM, fetish or role-play. Increasing your confidence and enjoyment is my goal