“If you’re a switch, how do you figure out how that works with the relationship you’re in? How do you get your needs met?” Those are the questions that Lee starts this clip with. Then he goes into several different examples of relationship styles – beginning with what he considers the “most radical”, choosing to be solo – and talks about strategies to be able to get your switch on in all of them. “What’s the passion inside your passion? What’s the core of your kink?”

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