Notice how this video is not called “breast bondage”? That’s because not everyone likes that word, and so Lee and Mir talk about different ways of non-shaming and non-gendering the chest, pectoral muscles, etc. Lee demonstrates several variations of the “shinju” harness, which can evoke just the feeling of a chest harness, can emphasize the chest tissue, or act as a chest-binder if that’s what is desired. Throughout it all Lee demonstrates how to communicate with a partner in ways that respect their gender presentation while staying hot.

This video is closed-captioned for the hearing impaired.