Like any kind of kinky play, communicating boundaries and desires are absolutely necessary before playing. SlutPhD and Flasher McDaniels model the kind of questions and answers that can happen when you’re collaborating for a scene where a FemDom is fucking a masculine-presenting bottom. They talk about limitations, what they like, and even touch on outside relationships. While there is a lot more to the whole skill of communicating within kink, this is a great primer for this particular form of play.

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