It seems like a pretty innocuous question: Is this ok? While Marcia grudgingly acknowledges that it’s better than not checking in at all, she also flat out states: “OK” is a sad, low standard for your sex life. Instead she offers some other ways to look at the experience, and in future clips she’ll tell you exactly what you can say instead.

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Consent with Marcia B.

1. What is Consent?
2. Myths About Consent
3. Why “Is this OK?” is the WORST Consent Question to Ask
4. Consent Agreement
5. Actually, Literally, What to Say in Consent Conversations
6. How Do I Make Consent Sexy?
7. When is Sex Over?
8. Consent & Respect
9. When Consent Conversations Get Awkward