In my quest to obtaining more information on anal play and anal sex, I have added a few more videos to my viewing list. I have decided to take in all the information Kink Academy has to offer.
The first video I watched was by Faye. She “explains, regardless of gender, sexual orientation or power dynamics, anal pleasure can be used to create positive and enjoyable sex play.” This video is geared towards both men and women who would like to engage in anal play and/or sex. I think it’s a very good video for anyone to watch who may have some misinformation about anal sex/play. Faye and I share very similar views. She even says something very important that I have said myself many times. Anal play/sex is for everyone. No matter the gender, race, sexual orientation, etc. or if you are submissive or dominant. Anal sex/play does not make you gay. Are you listening men? A sexual act does not make you gay or straight. It’s your sexual orientation that makes you gay, straight, whatever. So men, if you like to have your anus stimulated during oral sex by a woman, this does not make you gay. It just means you enjoy having your ass played with. Who can blame you? There a many delicious nerve endings there that bring great pleasure if stimulated correctly! This is a great video for anyone to watch who may have some questions or misconceptions about anal sex. As for me, I pretty much already share the views expressed in this video.
The second video I watched, also by Faye, did teach me a few things I didn’t already know. In this video she “starts by discussing the pros and cons of ‘cleaning out’ and gives tips for the various options of enema’s and douching and then covers a bit about anal and colon health to help you enjoy ass play safely.” Awhile ago, in anticipation of having anal sex with Sylvanus, I bought a few Fleet enemas. I was thinking that should I be ready to have anal sex, perhaps it would be best to clean out my system. However, after watching this video, perhaps that isn’t always the best choice. In general, if you already have a very healthy digestive system, you probably don’t want to clean yourself out. It could actually cause more of a mess by loosening things up that would have normally stayed away. Another thing I didn’t realize, is that many of these store bought enemas also contain a laxative, which would also be a big no-no. It is suggested that if they do contain a laxative, just pour the contents out and fill the bottle with warm water instead. Finally, something I did learn and will take into consideration, is that if you do give yourself an enema before anal play/sex, it is best to do it about 2 hours before the play/sex happens. It may take your body that long to flush all the water out of your system and it could be a mood killer if your body suddenly has to expel poo water write in the middle of your play.
As of right now, I’m not sure if I will end up using an enema before anal sex with Sylvanus since we seem to be more of the spontaneous type. He also doesn’t seem like the type of person bothered by a little fecal matter, but he can always use a condom. Perhaps we’ll by some black condoms or dark colored condoms, as those would disguise any poo much better than white/clear condoms would.
If we do end up using an enema, I’ll be sure to write about my first time experience for all to see!