I chose to watch the following video for two reasons. The first being, to show you, you don’t need to be a hard core BDSM person to benefit from the Kink Academy site. You can have just a little bit of kink in you, to a whole lot of kink oozing from your pores. In fact, Kink Academy is for the ‘just curious” to the “expert”. The second reason is, I really wanted to pick something Sylvanus and I could watch together and enjoy. So it’s no surprise I chose to watch a video on “making out”, a particular favorite of my husband.

In “Two Play- Making out: the kiss“, Gray Dancer and his lovely assistant, “explain that kisses are ‘like conversations’ and that it’s very important to communicate through body language.” I watched the video on my own first and admittedly felt kind of silly. I don’t consider myself someone who needs to watch a video on “how to make out”. Last night, Sylvanus and I watched the video together. My intentions were to have the video act as foreplay. I personally don’t think we need any help when it comes to making out. In fact, all of the techniques in the video are ones we already use. I suppose if someone needs help, this video does share some good advice.

I find that kissing does work as a conversation. There is a lot of back and forth and it is important to notice how someone is kissing you. “Kiss someone how you would like them to kiss you.” There is a lot of give and take. The way I kiss someone is a hint to how I want the mood to be set. You can see how much fun can be had when kissing, as each partner either stays with the current kissing style, or takes the step to change it up.

After watching the video, Sylvanus and I began kissing on the couch. First things started slow and gentle. Our lips stayed closed before opening slightly. Finally our tongues slipped into each others’ mouths. The kissing began to get heated and Sylvanus took my hand and led me up the stairs. I reached the top and he turned me around so that we could use the stairs to our advantage. I threw my arms around him and our kisses became hard and fevered. He stepped up the stairs and pinned me to the wall as his body pressed against mine. Before I knew it he was leading me to the bedroom, where he undressed me and covered my body in kisses before we made love.

Though Sylvanus and I may have felt silly watching the video, I can say it absolutely worked to “set the mood” and get us kissing, leading to orgasm. There was one part of the video that made me double take and laugh. In the video, Gray Dancer says to “kiss like a horse or a camel”. As someone who has personally worked hands on with both horses and camels, this made me laugh and say, “I don’t recommend that.” Do you know how terrible a camel’s breath is and how slobbery they are? *chuckles* Ok ok, I know where he was coming from when he said that. Horses use their lips, teeth and tongues very well for many different functions. A camel, has split, prehensile lips, making them very finger-like. The point is, when kissing, make use of everything. Make use of your soft breath, tongue, lips and teeth. The possibilities and variables are endless! Happy Kissing!