A Protocol lesson from Princess Kali finished our trifecta a classes for that particular morning.
As we readied for our most wanton acts of carnal pleasure, we settled into a formal mode of interaction. She would only speak to me after I had spoken to her, she was dressed as I selected, and stood with her hands clasped together in front of her. She looked at me with an anxious smile, I could see in her minds eye she did not know what to expect.
During this time we had taken Princess Kali’s suggestions of establishing a way of addressing each other, that to us didn’t feel awkward or forced. Using words we were already familiar with in our lovemaking sessions allowed us to communicate more effectively.
Her interactions with me were dependent on what actions I were to perform. She knew to say only the words I suggested she say, she knew to ask me before she did anything. As a side note, to make things easier for us during this time, I had drinks handy, as well as other comforts in quick reach if needed.
She knew that part of our foreplay was going to involve her laying out the coils of rope, the floggers, and the other nice things I was going to put inside her. She then retrieved my coffee and cigar, then sat on my knee her her legs spread, and her pressing her pussy into my leg.
She rolled the cigar around her lips, moistening and readying it for me. After handing me the cigar I instructed her to stand, just to the side of my desk, await my instruction as I enjoyed the wafting aroma. I then began reading an academic article, while holding the cigar in one hand I used my other hand to mindlessly twirl her kinky pubic hair. Georgia took all this in quite obediently, for she knew if she wanted to touch me or herself in anyway she was to ask.
This particular scene was getting quite hot, her responding so sweetly to my instructions her adhering to the rules we agreed upon was quite hot. I would slowly tie the rope around her, stimulating her, and getting her to the point where she was begging profusely to touch me.
Princess Kali was correct mentioning the importance of tone of voice, Georgia and I both were maintaining a sensual tone with each other throughout the scene. An example was when I was tying Georgia, she would have to point out something to tight or uncomfortable, she maintained the same tone and used the same phrases that we had agreed upon to communicate with.
This sort of interchange can be quite powerful, erotic, and fun, but it takes work. Even though communication, tone of voice, as well as body language can effect a scene. Learning how to manage the unexpected or discomfort in a scene takes practice. That emphasizes another point Princess Kali made which is about respect. Respecting your partner in whatever role can enhance the scene even further, whatever their positives or negatives. Go into the situation to have fun, without getting upset when the unexpected happens, your scene will last longer, as well as being more fulfilling.
Protocol takes practice to perfect, take your time, incorporate the protocol into existing ways you already like to play.
The three videos we viewed added up to one intensely hot scene. The submission, service, and protocol, videos combined three elements that can be combined to enhance an already existing connection.
~Jay