Learning how to negotiate for your own needs is a vital skill for any submissive or bottom. Knowing how (and being able) to stand up for your own safety and boundaries both before the scene starts and after can be the difference between a happy and healthy scene and an unfortunate incident. Cecilia Tan explains how to approach any new negotiation with open communication, honesty, and preparation.

Submissive Self Safety

1. Submissive Self Safety: Blame
2. Submissive Self Safety: Safe Call
3. Submissive Self Safety: Negotiation
4. Submissive Self Safety: Scene Stories
5. Submissive Self Safety: Meeting People