This clip starts with the question: “If you have plenty of energy and are feeling like being kinky but don’t know where to start, what can you do?” According to Princess Kali and her ‘Lazy Top’ philosophy, that’s when it’s time to mix things up! She gives specific suggestions such as: how to put the pressure to ‘perform’ on the submissive rather than the dominant, use role-play (including pet-play) to break out of creative blocks, be silly with messy or ‘gross’ play, and even use the time for fantasy communication and planning for future scenes.